Besides Catan basic game and the expansion Traders & Barbarians you will find two new game boards (Mallorca and New York). These include special rules in addition to the history of these two interesting locations. A tableau with two Berlin monuments gives players additional strategic opportunities. The variant “Helpers of Catan” offers solid character cards with special features for players. And as icing on the cake the Catan Big Box contains a pink set of pieces (including documents for Seafarers and Cities & Knights), which lets you substitute a different color.
Keeps track of all your movements – healthy living
Color: Wave, fuchsia, black, reef, red, white
In the box fitness tracker clasp + flash + sport band + battery
Dimensions (W x H x D) 28.5 x 28.5 x 8 mm
Weight 63 g
Thanks to the handy clip this bouncer is easy to fit to almost any door frame without screwing or drilling. The safety harness is very comfortable and equipped with a lock that can not be opened by children. My children loved it!
Every day I am looking at Cartoon network, or some other kids TV channel. I am so surprised about the terrible toys grown-ups come up with. The ads which are displayed to kids. The wannahaves!!
I will share my top 10 in random order of the most terrible kids toys they have invented nowadays. And under the video or picture you will find my comment on these toys.
The worst kids toys in my opinion.
1. Zoomer Zuppies – € 39,95
This is so terrible. The ad is saying it’s ideal for children who can’t have their own puppy be cause of an allergy. I spontaniously develop an allergy for these fony toys. So are the Zoomer Dinos an Kitties
Who the heck, wants his children to ride with cars on the wall??
Some comments I found on the internet:
After half an hour the car was already gone.
New batteries … unfortunately without result
Does not move right
The wall racer is a setback. He sticks well as the windows but does not run on it. Also on the floor he comes barely ahead. This is probably because the wheels underneath not protrude enough to drive. I returned the car.
Not only today, but in the past there has been quite a few missers too. To name a few.
Skipper which you could stretch and give boobies.
A saddle for Daddy? OMG!
Little kiddies smoking package???
And the inventer of the badman waterpistol surely saw his error after the production of this toy.
Quite a heavy subject to write about, what is parenting? Because every parent is convinced of doing it right, and they are! Given the knowledge they have in store.
Raising children need skills. You can’t just take a child without any previous preparation. It is doomed to failure. When I go to a hairdresser to cut my hair, I expect at least that person has followed an education of four years. When the child is born, the mother is also born . What does your child expect?
When you are ready to start a family of your own, you will come in an acceleration of tips, advices and arrangements to make. Everybody around you seems to know more than you do. About what to buy, what to read and how the pregnancy will go and childbirth will feel. You may or may not go to the gym, what supplements to take. Take every advice in consideration and decide for yourself which one to follow.
There will be advices to give birth in a bath, but when you hate taking a bath in the first place, don’t follow this well-intentioned advice. Be sure you find for yourself the most comfortable and safe place to give birth to your child.
Do you need to go to a course to learn the skills about parenting?
Or do you need to read some books to learn how to become a good parent? Most of your parenting skills you learn from your Mom and Dad. How did they manage to get you where you are right now?
What are your thoughts? Did they do a terrific job? Or do you want to be a totally different parent for your child? When you want to do it totally different, it might be advisable to get yourself some books to read or trainings to follow, because the only thing you are taught is the way your own parents have done the parenting. And when you don’t learn how to educate your children in a better way, it’s quite common you will fall back into the same habits you want to avoid.
Parenting tips for toddlers
What do you need to address fermly and consequently when your toddler is between the 2 and 4 years of age.
I always go out from the situation that the child is 14-16 years of age, what kind of behaviour you want then, you address in the toddler time.
Throwing with toys
Rude talking back
Respect for the surrounding and environment
Kicking and beating
Respect for food
Tidy on clothing
Pick up toys
Sleeping in own room
Quietly and softly talking outside
Hygiene and potty training
Can you imagine when your don’t learn these 10 things to your toddler, what kind of behaviour your teenager will develope?
Positive discipline is rewarding good behaviour. As you can see in the video’s positive behaviour is being rewarded with balls and negative behaviour is punished with a time-out.
I use big thumb charts to reward the children for positive behaviour, and when they have 50 thumbs up, they will be rewarded extra for it.
There is no such thing as bad parenting. There is only such thing as a bad education about how to parent your child. And you become only a bad parent, when you see something is going wrong, and you refuse to learn all about it how to put things right.
And when it goes wrong, they do not have a reset button
To educate and socialize your children as a single parent can be quite challanging. Try to make good agreements with other care takers about parenting your children. Don’t ever make the mistake to start parenting outof guilt.
* read she, her or herself when it concerns a girl.
Parenting Style 1: Authoritarian
An authoritarian parenting style is characterized by a lot of rules. The parent is the boss and the child must obey. When the child does not follow the rules? Then he will be punished. Authoritarian parents do not explain the rules and give no room for discussion.
A child knows precisely what his parents expected of him. His parents are clearly in charge and decide what happens. Some children may (temporarily) benefit from an authoritarian upbringing.
A child may be frightened and docile by an authoritarian upbringing. Or rather rebellious and aggressive. In any case, a child develops low self-esteem and little independence. He doesn’t learn to reason why he wants something and can have difficulties to make the right decisions for himself. This kind of parenting can cause many worries. As the child grows, he will increasingly try to withdraw himself from his parents.
Parenting Style 2: Permissive
Indulgent parents have a huge attention to the wishes and needs of their child. They give their child in almost everyting his way. In fact, the child is in control and there are few demands on him. Parents who use this style, take their children seriously but themselves not (or at least their own rules not). You often see that the parents want to be their childrens best friend.
In this method of educating the parent and child are equivalent. Causes very few conflicts: the child can do(almost) everything.
Child of permissive parents are spoiled and don’t get boundries. The child gets little feedback, and doesn’t learn to consider others. Moreover, he doesn’t learn to deal with his emotions and to control himself, he can be sad, impulsive and aggressive. If the child goes to puberty, the educators may lose their influence.
Note from the writer: As a parent you need to take responsibility to lead your child away from making bad choices. You are the parent, not the best friend. So you have to act like a parent!
Parenting Style 3: Democratic (also called authoritative)
Parents set the rules and at the same time pay attention to the wishes and needs of their child are democratic or authoritative educators. They lead with love, take into account the development of their child and consult with their child. The rules that they make with them are justified with arguments. The child is supported and encouraged. Give your child love, without accepting any crap. And be sure that a boundary is not always a constraint. This kind of parenting is working with flexible boundries.
This parenting style promotes self-confidence and independence of the child. The child is respected as a person and his development is followed. There is mutual openness between child and caregiver. Children who are raised in this way are often happier and do better in school. They have fewer behavioral problems and are more resilient against the negative influence of some peers.
The democratic parenting style takes the most time and energy of all parenting styles. The child will not obey blindly the parent. He wants to hear arguments. That engagement in conversation takes time and patience. Parents and children must accept that their opinions do not always agree. The danger is that a child will be free and emancipated. And parents just keep talking and arguing to maintain instead of boundaries. With this kind of parenting, it can get outof hand when your child has a very persistent personality.
Parenting Style 4: neglectful
There are also educators who neglect their child. They make few rules. They provide little security, support, safety and engagement. The child is left to his fate: he can figure it all out all by himself.
Parenting like this is an escape to any responsibility in relation to the child.
Not much advantages. To pay no attention to a child is easy. A parent like that has many time for himself and his work.
A neglectful caregiver learns his child nothing. The child doesn’t learn what is wise or fair. With as result, the child is at risk of coming into contact with the wrong friends. In any case the child brought up in this way feels himself lonely, abandoned and unloved.
Top 10 parenting tips for what is parenting
Which choices will liquify into a disaster.
Mistake number # 1
Playing with your mobile, or from behind your computer and nod your head, or just keep watching TV while your child talks to you.
Your child will translate it into: I am not important.
Mistake number # 2
Criticism and condemnation to comment on the behavior of your child. What’s wrong with you? How many times do I have to tell you? Pulling a face displeasure. Recognition is the first step in the education.
Tell them, you understand what they go through, give recognition to the feelings of the child.
Mistake number # 3
Get angry when your child makes mistakes or if something fails then telling them that if it would have listened to you it would not have become such a mess.
Better tell them, I understand what went wrong, can I help you to set things right again?
Mistake number # 4
Too busy with your own pursuits and have no time to spend time alone with your child.
Make sure you have quality time with your kids. Enjoy the time you spend together, it goes faster than you think. Before you know it they left the house.
Mistake number # 5
The boss of your child.
Give your children choices or use humor. Let them in their own way of doing things, as long as it is not dangerous. Parents are here to educate children and to ensure their safety until they can do this themselves.
Mistake number # 6
Worrying about what others think and tell your children that the approval of others is important.
Teach your children to stop, before they do something and ask themselves, “What are the consequences if I do this” This skill will help them tremendously in their growing up. Imagine yourself, that your own child, a teenager, stops himself wondering, “What will be the result of unprotected sex?” “Or if I take this drug ” or if I drink and drive? “Or if I don’t study for an exam?”
Do you understand that these questions are much more important than “what will people say?”
Mistake no. # 7
To give your child only recognition for what he does.
Acknowledge your children for who they are, their qualities and character, not only for what they are doing. Tell your children that you’re happy to see them. You’ll find it delicious to spend time with them. It’s a joy to be with them. They are cozy and nice and they make you laugh. You feel at ease with them. That you love to look at them as they have fun with their brother or friend (s)
Acknowledge their trip, not only to their final destination. Their strength and dignity does not depend on what your child does.
I love you no matter what you perform. “
Mistake number # 8
Blindly take advice from family, friends or even experts. ”
Always ask yourself, “What effect would have it on my child as I frequently do or say what this person (friend, expert) tells me to do?”
Mistake number # 9
Tell your children that they should not cry or get angry.
Validate the feelings of your children. Say things like: “I know you feel sad at this time” or “That must really have hurt when …….” Or “You’re angry because I ………”
After validating feelings you can say, I advise you … .. because I love you. “If you reflect the feelings of your children back, they learn to honor their own feelings.
Mistake number # 10
Leave your child alone, walk away from your child. Let them emotionally alone.
Let your children know that you love them, unconditionally (that there exist no circumstance in which you would not love them) and that you are never angry with them. You’re just angry at what they have done (their behavior). Children feel totally different depending on what you say.
Avoid in any case to tell them: you are bad, or you are stupid. Or in the worse case, to say: I hate you. Tell them instead, what you did was wrong, and what you said was not that smart. And I hate it when you behave like that.
Embrace and hug your children often and tell them how much you love and appreciate them. Let them know that their behavior is not always good, but you will always love them.
Parent tips for reading, books about
“What is parenting”
Having a baby is a life-changer. It gives you a whole other perspective on why you wake up every day. Taylor Hanson
At the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child’s success is the positive involvement of parents.Jane D. Hull
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children. Charles R. Swindoll
Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them.P. J. O’Rourke
Children should have enough freedom to be themselves – once they’ve learned the rules.Anna Quindlen
This is quite a find! I like it a lot!
Toymail free Voice Messaging For Kids.
Can you imagine that you as mum or dad really have to work, and leave your kid in a daycare or at the babysit, and you have the opportunity to send your little girl or boy an instant message 🙂
Look at how it works, it makes you smile from ear to ear!
You got to love this little “Meatball”.
You connect the little mailman to your home Wifi
Then record a message anytime, anywhere, and send it to your sweetheart.
As you know, I am affiliated with the products I tell you about on my website, this “Mailman” isn’t having an affiliate program, but still I truly like this so much, so that’s why I wrote this post.
Toymail free Voice Messaging For Kids
When the mailman is snorting, wheezing or whining, your kid will know they’ve got a new message. And your child can respond directly from their toy.
I hope it will strengthen theband between family members who can’t be together through circumstances. You can order your MAILMAN here at Toymail
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A blog full of questions, but you have to find the answers yourself.
Can we honestly tell our grandchildren that we didn’t had a clou? That we didn’t know about the melting icecap?
That we couldn’t prevent the fellingofancient forests?
That it is not our fault the water is getting polluted?
That we had no ways to save the environment?
Watch this impressive video from Prince Ea, after that we talk again.
I AM SO SORRY !
Yes we will be sorry.
Sorry we did ignore the facts.
Sorry we do not have a “reserve earth”.
Sorry we only think about our own gain.
Sorry we messed thing up.
For what? For MONEY!
Money rules the world. And we are without scruple, wittingly, destroying the environment.
Can we really point a finger to governments, to industries, to multy-nationals?
Ways to Save the Environment?
Do you think before you buy something?
Do you know where your food comes from?
How do you throw your garbage away?How much energy do you use?
What kind of footprint do you leave on this planet?
Ways to Save the Environment!
OUR KITSare at stake!
Overcome your fear, and spread this words! Use as much second hand articles as you can. Recycle what ever you can. Know we can change, stopandreverse this deadly process. I am as much responsible as others. Think before you do something. Save this earth by working together as one!
When you look around and see the amount of money what is rotating on the stock markets, you hardly can’t believe that there are still so much people in need of basic lifenecessities. People who are applying for a micro loan (micro loans for small business).
Together we are strong!
It truly touched my heart to see the pictures of those people in need.
Maria Dolores wants a small loan to buy bricks and cement to repair her house.Click on the picture to read Maria’s story.
Dilfuza wants a small loan to buy a sewing machine the start her own business.Click on the picture to read Dilfuza’s story.
~And hundreds of people more asking for your help~
They do not ask for much, but which bank will give a loan to somebody who has nothing? No income? or no surity?
That’s why I plead for the “micro loans small business” organization Kiva, together we cán make a difference!
Beyond charity, rethinking how we give ~ about Kiva
Non-profit charity organization for micro loans for small business
Kiva is a non-profit organization with a mission to connect people through lending to alleviate poverty. Leveraging the internet and a worldwide network of microfinance institutions, Kiva lets individuals lend as little as $25 to help create opportunity around the world. Learn more about how it works….
Amigos Colombianos, is a Dutch charity organization where Frank van Rijn “the boss himself” is working in the field. This is a life changing help program for streetgirls living in Medellin, Colombia.
Frank van Rijn says:
In early 2000Ifirst arrivedin Medellin.Ambulatoryyouth worker inthe Netherlands, Idecided to contactwith the street childrenI saw onthe streets everywhere. I was astonished atthe circumstances in whichchildrenwere trying tosurvive.Withoutexception, theyhavealready had to dealintheir youthwith a combination ofmistreatment, abuse, extreme poverty anddrug use. Whatadifferencewithourcarefreeexistencein the Netherlands!
I realizedthatwith relatively littlehelp, I coulddramatically improve thequality of life andthe future prospectsof these children.I alsofound outthat forstreetgirls,in contrast of boy, therewas totallyno help.That is whyI founded in2002AmigosColombianos. Meanwhile, thanks to the support ofthousands of people inthe Netherlands,hundreds of streetgirls received theopportunitythrough ourprogramto buildan acceptablefuture.With psychologicalcounseling,education, trainingand work.
Because this is a Dutch organisation, most videos are in the Dutch languages. Allthough the images do not need any language.
This is the video channel of Amigos Colombianos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7iD5qfWbcZkOgCJGbAvK2g/videos
As you all by now know, it is not going so well with our earth. In thisindustrial age, we are all together responsible for the global warming
For kids, this is a difficult subject to understand. Because they are growing up in a time where everything, of course,is electrical. In this blog, I want to give parents and educators some handles to explain global warming for kids.
At first, I want to show you a little video which I found on the website of World Wildlife Fund. It counts from 1880 – 2005. And for sure this problem did not dissolve until now. It is a Dutch site, but the little movie does not need words.
Global Warming for Kids
When it comes to explaining global warming to kids, there are a lot of difficult words to explain. Words as greenhouse gases, dinitrogen monoxide, nitric oxide, ozone layer or carbon dioxide. I will leave them for what they are. I will attend the Kyoto protocol at the bottom of this article.
How can you, in an easy way, explain the global warming to them?
At first, you can start with the cause of what and who are responsible for the effect of the warming up of the earth.
The industrial progress, more and more industry
Cutting trees for our needs, p.e. paper – furniture – houses etc.
Our use of electricity
More and more people using cars, shipping and trucktransport
Megaproductionofthe meat industry
……about everything a human being thinks he needs
Wehave now determinedthe cause.
What can you do about it? I mean, in what way can every living person take its own responsibility.
You can be careful with your things and clothes, so you don’t have to replace them for new. And when you took care of your stuff, they are good enough to recycle.
You can recycle all your paper, that will save trees.
You can turn off the lights when you leave a room.
Or pull the plug out ofyourchargerwhennot in use.
Do not usespray bottles with (N2O)(nitrous oxide)
Put a warm sweater on before turn up the central heater.
Use a timer for the shower.
Teach your children to look where the groceries are coming from, are they local, or have they travelled all around the world?
Be an example and walk more, or take your bike.
Use your car only if you really have to.
Teach your children to say NO to all plasticjunkat the checkout.
The meat industry is the most harmful industry forourenvironment. Try to learn your children they will survive without a piece of meat every day. Even without any meat, they will!
You can vote! Yes, you can make a difference!
Everything we use becomes an attack on our environment because we are with 7 billion people right now. It is not one time a person throws away some paper. If everyone does that it will be 7 billion pieces of papers! 7 billion slices of meat! 7 billion chargers left in! 7 billion lights on!
Global Warming for Kids, the consequences when we do not listen to our scientists.
Floods caused by melting of Arctic ice
Extreme weather, hurricanes and thunderstorms
Diseases from bad air and water
Extinction ofanimals and plants
We get warnings from nature itself! The coral reefs are in a dying state. It is a warning the state of the seawater is veryworrying. We are getting super storms. Nature will warn us, over and over again, we can choose to listen, and we can choose to ignore it.
Global warming for kids resume.
In 1997 some top leaders came to the conclusion, there had to be a change. They came together in the Japanese city Kyoto.
Kyoto I. They proposeda protocolonhow muchpollution a country could make. A whole lot of countries would not sign this agreement. Because when you agree, you have to live up to it!
Kyoto II. Far from allindustrialized countriescomply withthe KyotoII, as many statesdid not participate inthe first protocol.In addition to the27 states ofthe EUthere areabout 10countries participating.
There are 195internationally recognizedindependent states. So 158 states are still not willing to change their habits to save the environment.
Largestates (andpolluters) asUnited States, Russia, Japan and Canada remainoutsidethe protocol.The countries thathave agreed to sign are accountable for about15 percentof global emissions.
158 countries will not agree to change their lifestyle. They are our world leaders and refuse to sign this extreme important agreement.
When we can make our children aware of how heavythe load is on our environment, the production and transport, our consumption, perhaps we can save our environment…..for their children’s children! Our own children are the world leaders of the future.
Teach the children well, and we can change the world in one decennium!
Teach the Children Well, so we can Change the Future in one Decade
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